what to believe when everyone says one thing about a person but the person itself says another thing?

how much do i know to know which side to take or which side of the story is true?

what about when everyone else relates that particular situation to a whole different scenario?

how different is the scenario? is it just a stereotype? or am i the only one who thinks that others are stereotyping?

i dont know.

i dont know what to believe. what to do. what is my stand. i dont know. im shaken.