distance?

was walking to the restaurant today to dapao my dinner
i noticed the couple walking in front of me
the way they interacted was rather weird
the guy was walking next to the girl
and there was another girl with them
so its a 3 person walking along the road kind of thing
he was holding a file with his right hand
the file resting somewhere between his right elbow and his right wrist
and his girl
was somehow pulling his hand
wanting to talk to him
if im not mistaken
she had to tip toe to talk to him
to me, it looks like he didnt bother about her and her existance at all
and the poor girl
was trying so hard to get him to notice her
at least hold her hand
she was tugging at his hand
but nah
he didnt bother

got me thinking
distance?
some people can be so near physically
like them
yet so far
he had that ignorant, dont-disturb-me kind of look
but then
did he try caring for her?
or is she the desperate one?

physical distance does not determine anything
so what if they were standing so close to each other
yet
their souls and hearts were not linked together

yet for some people
although they think and claim they have met their soul mate
and jump straight into sex
even if they have only known each other for weeks
what does that distance indicate?

sex
a word that seems to be so much of a taboo
is a big issue that is arising here in university
its either all these while
my friends have been rather sane
or maybe i've never paid attention to this matter
now its put there right in my face
premarital sex seems something so random
a prove of love for some?
im disgusted
seriously totally utterly disgusted at their behaviour
sex is suppose to be something beautiful
but because its happening at the wrong time
out of the context of marriage
it is so wrong
so sinful

distance
what does it indicate?
nothing?